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title: Blog | John Curtiss
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## John Curtiss

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John is President of the Community of Recovering People board of directors and The Retreat. He is one of the principle designers of The Retreat model.

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## Recent Posts

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## [A New Year's Message of Gratitude](https://blog.theretreat.org/a-new-years-message-of-gratitude)

 \[fa icon="calendar'\] Jan 1, 2025 8:00:00 AM / by [John Curtiss](https://blog.theretreat.org/author/john-curtiss) posted in [recovery process](https://blog.theretreat.org/topic/recovery-process), [Gratitude](https://blog.theretreat.org/topic/gratitude), [celebration](https://blog.theretreat.org/topic/celebration)

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Dear Alumni, Friends, and Supporters,

As we stand on the threshold of a new year, I find myself reflecting on the incredible journey we’ve shared at The Retreat. With immense gratitude in my heart, I want to take a moment to acknowledge the profound impact we’ve made together. To date, we have helped nearly 33,000 men, women, and families find the road to recovery, each one a testament to the power of community, compassion, and hope.

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## ["Love & Service": Ignite the Flame of Recovery Through Service](https://blog.theretreat.org/ignite-the-flame-of-recovery-through-service)

 \[fa icon="calendar'\] Aug 29, 2023 8:00:00 AM / by [John Curtiss](https://blog.theretreat.org/author/john-curtiss) posted in [alcohol addiction](https://blog.theretreat.org/topic/alcohol-addiction), [Alcoholics Anonymous](https://blog.theretreat.org/topic/alcoholics-anonymous), [Recovery](https://blog.theretreat.org/topic/recovery), [AA meetings](https://blog.theretreat.org/topic/aa-meetings)

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Dear Alumni and Friends of The Retreat,

Are you seeking to deepen your connection to your recovery journey? Do you wish to experience the transformative power of selflessness and compassion? Look no further - we invite you to embrace the incredible benefits of service in Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) and join us in spreading the light of recovery in our community.

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## [Spirituality & Recovery](https://blog.theretreat.org/spirituality-and-recovery)

 \[fa icon="calendar'\] Apr 12, 2023 9:22:46 AM / by [John Curtiss](https://blog.theretreat.org/author/john-curtiss) posted in [Alcoholics Anonymous](https://blog.theretreat.org/topic/alcoholics-anonymous), [recovery process](https://blog.theretreat.org/topic/recovery-process), [alcoholism](https://blog.theretreat.org/topic/alcoholism), [Recovery](https://blog.theretreat.org/topic/recovery)

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On March 11, 2023, The New York Times ran a commentary by Maia Szalavitz titled “People Have a Right to Nonreligious Rehab” questioning the connection between religion/spirituality and recovery, and we felt it was important to present The Retreat’s view on the issues raised in this article.  

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## [Virtual tour of the new Women’s Center at The Retreat.](https://blog.theretreat.org/virtual-tour-of-the-new-womens-center-at-the-retreat)

 \[fa icon="calendar'\] Apr 16, 2020 4:21:41 PM / by [John Curtiss](https://blog.theretreat.org/author/john-curtiss) posted in [recovery process](https://blog.theretreat.org/topic/recovery-process), [Recovery](https://blog.theretreat.org/topic/recovery), [women in recovery](https://blog.theretreat.org/topic/women-in-recovery), [Women's Sober Residential](https://blog.theretreat.org/topic/womens-sober-residential)

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## [The Retreat's Response to COVID-19](https://blog.theretreat.org/the-retreats-response-to-covid-19)

 \[fa icon="calendar'\] Mar 20, 2020 3:21:47 PM / by [John Curtiss](https://blog.theretreat.org/author/john-curtiss)

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As The Retreat continues to respond to this rapidly evolving COVID-19 pandemic, as always, our first priority is the health and safety of our staff, guests and community. We are closely monitoring updates on COVID-19, and continue to follow the guidelines and recommendations issued by the CDC as the public health community learns more about how this virus is contracted, spread, and most effectively treated.

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## [Keeping the Twelve Steps at the Forefront during these times of Change in the Addiction Recovery Field.](https://blog.theretreat.org/keeping-the-twelve-steps-at-the-forefront-during-these-times-of-change-in-the-addiction-recovery-field)

 \[fa icon="calendar'\] Oct 1, 2015 2:31:30 PM / by [John Curtiss](https://blog.theretreat.org/author/john-curtiss) posted in [Alcoholics Anonymous](https://blog.theretreat.org/topic/alcoholics-anonymous), [alcoholism](https://blog.theretreat.org/topic/alcoholism), [Recovery Program](https://blog.theretreat.org/topic/recovery-program), [Drugs Adiction](https://blog.theretreat.org/topic/drugs-adiction), [Chemical Dependency](https://blog.theretreat.org/topic/chemical-dependency)

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## [The Rise in Drug Abuse Among Baby Boomers.](https://blog.theretreat.org/the-rise-in-drug-abuse-among-baby-boomers)

 \[fa icon="calendar'\] Jul 17, 2015 9:30:00 AM / by [John Curtiss](https://blog.theretreat.org/author/john-curtiss) posted in [Alcoholics Anonymous](https://blog.theretreat.org/topic/alcoholics-anonymous), [Recovery](https://blog.theretreat.org/topic/recovery), [Older Adult Recovery Programs](https://blog.theretreat.org/topic/older-adult-recovery-programs), [Drugs Adiction](https://blog.theretreat.org/topic/drugs-adiction), [Chemical Dependency](https://blog.theretreat.org/topic/chemical-dependency)

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## [Carrying the Message of Hope and Recovery.](https://blog.theretreat.org/carrying-the-message-of-hope-and-recovery)

 \[fa icon="calendar'\] Jul 8, 2015 3:10:49 PM / by [John Curtiss](https://blog.theretreat.org/author/john-curtiss) posted in [Alcoholics Anonymous](https://blog.theretreat.org/topic/alcoholics-anonymous), [alcoholism](https://blog.theretreat.org/topic/alcoholism), [Recovery](https://blog.theretreat.org/topic/recovery), [AA meetings](https://blog.theretreat.org/topic/aa-meetings), [Recovery Program](https://blog.theretreat.org/topic/recovery-program)

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## [The Fear of Surrender. Letting Go and Letting Our Higher Power Lead.](https://blog.theretreat.org/the-fear-of-surrender-letting-go-and-letting-our-higher-power-lead)

 \[fa icon="calendar'\] Jun 3, 2015 1:29:00 PM / by [John Curtiss](https://blog.theretreat.org/author/john-curtiss) posted in [Alcoholics Anonymous](https://blog.theretreat.org/topic/alcoholics-anonymous), [alcoholism](https://blog.theretreat.org/topic/alcoholism), [12 steps of aa](https://blog.theretreat.org/topic/12-steps-of-aa), [Recovery Program](https://blog.theretreat.org/topic/recovery-program), [Drugs Adiction](https://blog.theretreat.org/topic/drugs-adiction)

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One of the great challenges for those still struggling with alcohol and drug dependency - and even for those in long-term recovery - is **surrendering to a power greater than ourselves.** Giving up the internal battle to control our own lives and letting someone else guide us to a path of sobriety can often feel like the hardest thing we have ever done. Until we do completely surrender, however, we will never fully know the joys that a sober life can bring. The process of surrendering our lives to a power greater than ourselves must first begin with the realization that alone, left to our own devises, we cannot solve this problem. For most of us this was a painful, lonely and at times embarrassing process to reach a point in our lives where we are truly humble and teachable. Our self-centered out of control ways drove us to a point of utter despair.

Yet, for the fortunate of us, this it what was required to reach a point of absolute surrender. We had exhausted all of our will to beat this disease and reclaim our lives. Throwing our hands up in defeat we were finally given the gift of receptivity. We are now ready and available to receive the guidance and support that will lead us to a happy, sober and meaningful life. Whether it be with an [AA](https://www.theretreat.org/alumni-friends/calendar) sponsor, professionals in the recovery field, a spiritual guide or fellow members in the rooms of Alcoholics Anonymous (AA) we find that we are no longer alone and that there are many, who have come before us, that can show us the way.

At the age of 23, after a nine-year battle with alcoholism and drug addiction that nearly killed me, two old-timers in AA plucked me out of my misery and put me on a one-way airline flight from Cincinnati Ohio to Minnesota. I knew when I got on that plane that there was no going back. I had burned all of my bridges. All of MY efforts to change my life resulted in more pain, more loss, more trouble. I was utterly powerless to stop drinking and using on my own and my life was a mess. I was terrified of what may lie ahead, but I was completely willing to let someone else direct the next steps of my life. I adopted a posture of a student, looking at everyone who came into my life as teachers who could show me a better way to live my life.

This willingness to go to any lengths led me to two months in treatment, eight months in a halfway house and a year and a half living in a sober house, surrounded by a community of fellow travelers who taught me how to live the spiritual program embodied in the **Twelve Steps of Alcoholics Anonymous in my day-to-day life**. I was introduced to a “Program of Living”, a community of support and a spiritual connection that for the past thirty-nine years, one day at a time, has given me an opportunity to live a whole, meaningful and productive sober life. And all I have to do to keep it is stay sober, live the Twelve Steps in my day-to-day life, stay grateful and teachable and help others.

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## [How Having a Community Atmosphere Can Create Stronger Sobriety.](https://blog.theretreat.org/how-having-a-community-atmosphere-can-create-stronger-sobriety)

 \[fa icon="calendar'\] May 5, 2015 10:32:09 AM / by [John Curtiss](https://blog.theretreat.org/author/john-curtiss) posted in [Alcoholics Anonymous](https://blog.theretreat.org/topic/alcoholics-anonymous), [Sober Housing](https://blog.theretreat.org/topic/sober-housing), [Recovery Program](https://blog.theretreat.org/topic/recovery-program), [Drugs Adiction](https://blog.theretreat.org/topic/drugs-adiction), [Chemical Dependency](https://blog.theretreat.org/topic/chemical-dependency)

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Community involvement has been a cornerstone in many human developments from building a strong educational environment to creating a network of expanding business opportunities. Like the development seen in local communities for prosperity and future growth, creating a strong community atmosphere is an essential part of early sobriety.

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